are all stuck in the middle of nowhere. Millions in
of the Iraqis, including me, didn't expect to see
My country is cursed, and it seems predetermined for our people to live with a chain of endless sufferings. Iraq is a perplexing country. It has everything you could want. It has one of the oldest civilizations on earth with two rivers that connect all parts of the country and flow like the veins in a body. It has every reason to expect an affluent life—from agriculture to industry to precious commodities like oil and mercury—and yet the majority of its people live in misery and poverty.
I was thinking that by coming to America and by giving something to my parents to compensate them for what they've already missed in their lives, I would be able start a new chapter that had no connection to my distressed past, but it seems I was wrong. It's harder than I ever expected. Life has not been different.
Iraqi refugees here in
American government is helping some Iraqis—those who worked for American armed
forces and other American organizations—to resettle in
are a few organizations here in
was enduring the situation when I was by myself, but now with my parents and my
younger brother with me it has become unbearable. I'm the one who is taking
care of everything: I have to work in a restaurant with a wage lower that the
one I received in
parents now think they are a burden to me since they know I'm responsible for
most of their expenses now, including rent, bills, and daily purchases. My
father is thinking about going back to
Many Iraqis I know talk about how Americans also suffer from unemployment. We sometimes lament our bad luck for coming to the States at this time. We even make jokes about us being a bad omen for this country.
are too many stories to tell about the Iraqi refugees in America. Stories of old
people, young people, and families. All came to the States looking for a better
future but still can't believe how hard life is for them here. I have known
many Iraqi friends in different cities of
I have to say that I haven't seen or heard any Iraqi complaints about cultural differences or any other issue related to our traditions or religion We all find that this country is truly the "land of freedom" in all its meanings. The American people are also very nice and polite and none of the Iraqis I know have ever complained about bad treatment.
The adjustment for old people and those who don't speak English is harder than it is for me. With this country’s current high rate of unemployment, it is nearly impossible to find a job, especially for those Iraqis with no English or elevated qualifications. The irony of the whole thing is that a lot of the Iraqi refugees here in the States are working or wanting to work as security guards for a country that was unable over the last past six years to provide security to their own country!
for me, with a bachelor's degree, at a good age, and having served the U.S Army in
are not sure whom to blame or whom to hold responsible for the whole thing. Is
it the American government? It seems to be morally obliged to resettle Iraqis